A better solution is to be open about it and tell your partner that you’re suffering from symptoms of low testosterone. This will make you both feel better as it will remove feelings of guilt and blame. It’s a team effort, not something you need to do all alone.
Talk to your partner
Choose a time when you’re both rested, relaxed - and sober! Make sure you won’t be distracted or interrupted.
#1. Begin simply: “I’m worried about my part in our love life”- or show your partner this website
#2. Explain the symptoms you are experiencing and what you are worried about
#3. Tell your partner what/how you feel, so they can sympathise
#4. Reassure your partner that you’re not blaming them and that you still care for them
#5. Explain what you’d like to do, so they know you’ve a solution in mind
#6. Tell your partner what you need them to do, so they are aware of how to support you
- Consider how low testosterone has affected you and your partner.
- Recall how your sexual life have changed since your erection problems began.
- Speak to your doctor as soon as possible because low testosterone may be an indication for metabolic dysfunction too.